Communication & Respect

COMMUNICATION can be perceived better as a two-way process in which there is an exchange & progression of thoughts, feelings or ideas(energy) towards a mutually accepted goal or direction (information).

As i read the sentence, it linked me to some thing which happened today @ the office. A lot of problem are being mistaken due to miscommunication or no communication at all.

Being a straight forward person, a lot of people could not take the things I have said unless u are the same character as me. Some people will feel that i am being defensive while others may feel that i was just being offending or having attitude to them. Regardless of what, I always feel that communication should always be part of your life every min & seconds. Cos this is the way how thoughts & feelings could be expressed.

Politics, bias always happened everywhere around us. Sometimes I just feel how come things will turned out in this way but not talk it out openly. Some people take things easy while others feel so unappreciative at all.

RESPECT can be a specific feeling of regard for the actual qualities of the one respected. It can also be a conduct in accord with a specific ethic of respect.

I always respect people who show respect to others rather than taking advantage of it. This is a specific feeling of regard which should be gain using the correct way instead of gaining it in another kind of channel.

Frankly speaking, I do not show respect to people who take me for granted or hurt me in some ways, showing me things which should not be the way & I hate when people throw temper at me just becos they are having mood -swing on the day. Cos I do not deserve these if u are unable to control urself emotionally.

I was being indicated as a chilli padi who give attitude to people. Well, i only reflect according to the situation but not the person. Treating things fairly is better than getting things away just becos of the biasing.

Do not ask me why i have such thoughts cos it just happened in this way.

1st 2010 resolution of mine being completed

iPhone! iPhone! iPhone! No matter when or where, you will see everyone have 1 on their hands busy clicking, playing, surfing.

Ever since StarHub & M1 joining their competitive company in the iPhone sales, every one start to have a hoo ha on it! Lining up for more than 3 hrs just wanna get a hand on the handset which everyone longs for.

I. As a normal human being, also wish to own 1 for myself too but due to some constraints, i am unable to do so. Sad. =( Dear know that i want 1 badly, so he decided to early re contract his plan to get 1 as a birthday present for me.. OMG~! So sweet, isn't it?

We headed down to IMM to purchase my phone & dear also gotten one for himself from those outside dealer at TPY. In exchange for these, we sold our hand phone ( coz we did not need 2 phone at one time).

We met our friends up for dinner, do some shopping & headed home from our friend's house at Punggol. By the time we reached home that was ard 2am. Feeling exhausted but dear just want me to help him with his phone setup.

In the end, I slept at 4.30am & feel so exhausted & tired when i woke up today for work. Just 2.5 hrs of sleep.. OMG!

Overall, i am still happy to be the owner of my iPhone. =)

Last time gathering lunch buffet @ Carlton Hotel

Every year after the year-end closing, my boss will give us a treat to buffet lunch. We had our lunch early this year due to re-org & my boss is transferring to another section. We settled our buffet at Carlton Hotel with the inventory colleagues. The food were fabulous. The atmosphere were good & most of all we enjoyed ourselves when we filled the whole session with laughter & jokes.

We seated together not as colleagues but as friends even with our bosses as we chatted & laugh in all our conversation. The feeling was relaxed & unofficial.

Look @ the oyster!! OMG!! & i have down with 6 of this. =p

My Sashimi set..

Enjoying my foodie!!!

Our last group pic

Boss, thanks for your guidance, tolerance, shielding wall for me for the past 2 yrs. I will miss you & take your advice seriously.

P/s: Thanks for the buffet lunch treat. We enjoyed ourselves very much!

Lucas Yeo

Today is a hot & sunny day. When i walked out of the air con area, i feel so uncomfortable & irritated. Accompanied dear & friends to Watch Arena to check out Rolex design & prices. Either the price of the watch is too steep else design were not the one we are looking for.

We headed to Pasir ris farm mart to check out for Yorkie. We saw 1 male yorkie at one of the mart. He was cute & small. All of us love it at first sight! My gf got the urge to get it but unfortunately he got ringworm in his body. Ringworm is a disease which can be cure after consistent apply of medication daily but it will come back if cleanliness of the dog is not taken care properly. And worse it will spread to human beings. She put a halt on it & decided to look around before making final decision. Cos Yorkie is not cheap at all lor! need more consideration..

We decided to head to one of the pet shop at Thomson & saw a tiny little 3 mth old boy which capture our attention. After much interaction & monitoring, my gf decide to get him.. And there, they have a new member in their Yeo's family.

Isn't he cute????

New hairstyle for 2010..

OMG! My perms are all in the messed. Unable to tolerate of all the messy & unnatural style. I decided to go back to my hairstylist to get it straighten. I am totally regret of getting the perms cos it made my dry look & feel dry. Argh!!

Made an appointment & went down to the salon at 1pm. May, my hairstylist for 8 yrs shake her head & say " Why like that??" I just gave a smile & replied," Maybe i not fated with perm stuff??"

Finally, my hair is back to neat, silky, straight hair after 5 hrs of stay at the salon. My bf was waiting at his home for me & nagged why i need so many hrs to get my hair done.. Well, my dear you cannot blamed me cos your dear have lots of hair which was why more hrs are needed.

My new silky straight hair after 5 hrs!!